Chirs Gardner
Chirs
Gardner
When
Chris Gardner and his young son were sleeping rough on the floor of a public
toilet, he could never have dreamt that his life story would be turned into a
hit Hollywood movie. It was back in the early 1980s that Mr
Gardner, then aged 27, and his toddler son were homeless for a year in San
Francisco. Enrolled on a low-paid trainee scheme at a stock brokerage, he
didn't have enough money to raise the deposit to rent an apartment. So Mr
Gardner, who was estranged from his partner, and Chris Jr would instead sleep
wherever they could. In addition to the toilet at a railway station, they'd bed
down in parks, at a church shelter, or under his desk at work after everyone
else had gone home.
Gardner
was born in Milwaukee,
Wisconsin on February 9, 1954,
to Thomas Turner and Bettye Jean Gardner. He was the second child and the only
boy born to Bettye Jean. His older half-sister, Ophelia, is from a previous
union. His younger sisters, Sharon and Kimberly, are children from his mother's
marriage to Freddie Triplett . Gardner did not have many positive male role models as a child, as his father was living in Louisiana during his birth, and his stepfather was physically abusive to both his mother and his sisters.
Triplett's fits of rage made both Gardner and his sisters constantly afraid .
On
June 18, 1977, Chris Gardner married Sherry Dyson, a Virginia native and an
educational expert in mathematics. With his knowledge, experience, and contacts
within the medical field, it appeared Gardner had his medical career plans laid
out before him. However, with ten years of medical training ahead of him and
with changes in
health care just on
the horizon, he realized that the medical profession would be vastly different
by the time he could practice medicine. Gardner was advised to consider more
lucrative career options; a few days before his 26th birthday, he informed his
wife, Sherry, of his plans to abandon his dreams of becoming a physician . His
relationship with Sherry was detached, in part because of his decision to
abandon a medical career and in part due to differences in their behavior.
While still living with Sherry, he began an affair with a dental student named
Jackie Medina, and she became pregnant with his child only a few months into
the affair. After three years of marriage to Sherry, he left her to move in
with Jackie and to prepare for fatherhood. Nine years elapsed before he and Sherry
were legally divorced in 1986 . .
His son
Christopher Jarrett Gardner Jr. was born on January 28, 1981. His
position as a research lab assistant paid only about $8,000 a year, which was
not enough for him to support a live-in girlfriend and a child. After four
years, he quit these jobs and doubled his salary by taking a job as a medical
equipment salesman. Gardner returned to San Francisco determined to succeed at
business. About four months after Jackie disappeared with their son, she
returned and left him with Gardner. By then, he was earning a small salary and
was able to afford rooming in a flophouse. He
willingly accepted sole custody of his child; however, the rooming house where
he lived did not allow children. Although he was gainfully employed, Gardner
and his son secretly struggled with homelessness while he saved money for a
rental house in Berkeley.
Meanwhile, none of Gardner's co-workers knew that he and his son
were homeless in the Tenderloin District of
San Francisco for nearly a year. Gardner often scrambled to place his child
in daycare, stood
in soup kitchens and slept wherever he and
his son could find safety—in his office after hours, at flophouses, motels,
parks, airports, on public transport, and even in a locked bathroom at a BART station. Concerned for Chris Jr.'s well-being, Gardner
asked Reverend Cecil Williams to allow them to stay at
the Glide Memorial United Methodist
Church's shelter for homeless women, now known as The Cecil Williams
Glide Community House. Williams agreed without hesitation. Today, when
asked what he remembers about being homeless, Christopher Gardner Jr. recalls
"I couldn't tell you that we were homeless, I just knew that we were
always having to go. So, if anything, I remember us just moving, always
moving."
After Gardner had found a home, he resumed contact with Jackie
and had a second child with her in 1985 – a daughter named Jacintha.
The stockbroker in the red Ferrari was a man named Bob
Bridges. He met with Gardner and gave him an introduction to the world of
finance. In 1987, Gardner established the brokerage firm, Gardner Rich
& Co, in Chicago, Illinois, an
"institutional brokerage firm specializing in the execution of debt, equity, and derivative products
transactions for some of the nation's largest institutions, public pension
plans, and unions." His new
company was started in his small Presidential Towers apartment, with start-up capital of $10,000 and a
single piece of furniture: a wooden desk that doubled as the family dinner
table. The "Rich" in the name was in honor of commodities
trader Marc Rich, who had
no connection to the company and whom Gardner had never met, but whom Gardner
considered "one of the most successful futures traders in the
world."
After
Gardner sold his small stake in Gardner Rich in a multimillion-dollar deal in
2006, he became CEO and founder of Christopher Gardner International Holdings,
with offices in New York, Chicago, and San Francisco.[7] During a visit to South Africa to observe
elections around the time of the 10th anniversary of the end of apartheid, Gardner met
with Nelson Mandela to discuss possible investment in South African
emerging markets. Gardner was planning an investment venture there which he
hoped would create hundreds of jobs and introduce millions in foreign currency
into the country's economy. Gardner has declined to disclose details of the
project, citing securities laws.
In 2002, Gardner received the Father of the Year Award
from the NFI. He also received the 25th Annual Humanitarian Award from the Los
Angeles Commission on Assaults Against Women (LACAAW), and the 2006 Friends of
Africa Award from the Continental Africa Chamber of Commerce. In 2008, he spoke
at his daughter's graduation from Hampton University.
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